Ride The Lifetrain w/Chuckie

The dating thing can be a cold and brutal game. Finding that proverbial soul mate can be very difficult. If you have a mate let me encourage you to make this your New Year’s resolution.

With all that you have, with all that you are, “FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM AGAIN!”.

Having said that, kick off the song that I picked to set the mood for this post and read on.  Leave a comment or two if you have some thoughts or an opinion.

As I reflect on my own experiences in this arena (this thing called love and relationships) I hope that I can begin to knit the following into the depth of my consciousness and effectively share it with my mate…

Note: I hope this helps you in the maze, so Let those who have ears hear.

Whenever we enter a relationship, we don’t often think or see beyond the physical being.  We are attracted to the body, face or personality.  We may like what the person does or how they do it and want to be a part of that.  We may even experience a pull from within that we can’t actually explain.  But how often do we stop to consider the true depth of the person we are attracted to?  There is a being before us who has a past, present, and future.  There are flesh and bones, hurts and scars, feelings thoughts and ideals.  When we enter the world of another being we must be willing to be a part of it all.  When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul.  You cannot treat a soul casually.  You must protect, nurture and handle it with care. Our interactions with one another; go far beyond the face, the body, and the hair. One other thing we must consider when we enter someone’s heart, that there is a heart and soul inside of us of which they will play a part.

So, in a nutshell all I’m saying is respect the heart, mind and soul…