A sacred thing, a vow…(note the left hand of the man) caused me to go for years without a date, without romance, without the fulfillment that God intended when he looked at Adam and said it is not good that he is alone. After years of neglect I clearly understood that. The need for love, for intimacy, for ROMANCE. The need not to be left alone…
The ‘secret’…to romance, however, according to the scientists, is a chemical called Oxytocin, which is produced naturally by the body from close, intimate contact and quality time between loving couples.
So, what does that mean? Well, to me, in layman terms, the more time a couple spends together, the closer they will become and feel. It’s the same message that’s been around for years. But somehow, or another, couples have gotten away from this fundamental paradigm.
It is said necessity is the mother of creation. Well, to that end, I needed to learn and develop my ability to be more romantic. The old adage of, “If I knew then what I know now,” is very real to me. So, after spending the time doing the research and identifying my favorites, I needed to create this date night. If for no other reason, “Date Night” is built so I’ll have a place I can reference and refresh my ideas. A place that has no boundaries, no constraints other then that which only my mind would dare to limit “us”. In addition and in the mean time, if you can also gain some comfort and value from our dates, all the better.
Thanks again for visiting. Know that I love and appreciate the comments. If you have some additional suggestions and/or insight to share with the readers, I’d love to hear from you.
Everyone should experience date night at least once a week with the someone special in your life. Daily outside pressures can influence inside relationships and communication is crucial to making sure that all both partners are feeling special,heard and most importantly loved and appreciated… I for one live for date nights…even if it means;cuddling on the phone with your long distance mate…lol…doing nothing…together…letting the t.v. watch you for a change….all important to the bond that is…a date….
Peace and blessings….
L.
Date night is a special time for two people to share their souls and hearts with one another. The rest of the world fades away and it’s “just the two of us”! That time can be refreshing and re-energizing. It helps the two, who hopefully become one many times over in the course of that date night, go back stronger as they prepare to face a new day. Guess you can tell that I want all my date nights to be passionate and heart-filled!!
Well said, however, I think you are selling yourself short as a sacred vow cannot be a cause, as it is the agreement that two people spiritually come together over. The decision to stay in neglect is based on choice not the essence of the vow. The paradigm in terms of the quantity of time two people spend with one another equating to closeness or lack thereof has not shifted as far as you think. If this were true, I am certain that couples surviving the military and those whose professions are based on travel and distance (ie,…truck drivers, recruiters, etc) would indeed beg to differ. The Date Nights are inspirational and encouraging mental get aways. It is a wonderful view into how nice it would be to have that experience, or to simply look at the possibility through Chuckie’s eyes with a lit candle, closed eyes and soothing relaxation, until it’s time wake up, back to life, back to reality.
AWWWWWWWWWWWWW…..Date night…supposedly the one day of the week that nothing in the entire universe exists except the two of you. Becoming spirtually and mentally as one.The look between you that tells the both of you…without a word…If I could be anywhere else tonight…I’d still choose to be here with you….sharing nothing but sharing everything, the night that the world stands still….the magic of a bond being created between us…with us… that will stand all the tests of time….Sounds wonderful…huh? So why not take a little fraction of everyday of the rest of your lives and have a date moment??? I believe that the bond that it will create between two people who are as one….would be awesome!