Hey LifeTrain Passengers, HAPPY MONDAY! Mondays can sometimes be a drag, but just remember, there are some folks who wish they were on this Train today heading to the office for to do war. So, from me to you, HAPPY MONDAY!
In a few short hours we’ll be heading back home. In support of the 5:o’clock drive let me tell you a secret. One that most guys would NEVER tell you. Heck, we almost can’t. Anyway, if you want to show your guy how much you appreciate him, get hands on.
Touch your man today. Now, again I say, most of us guys WOULD never tell you this but, being touched makes men feel loved in a way that words can’t.
Why? Guys tend to express love through action more than words, so when you wrap your arms around us, you’re speaking our native language. Sure, we love your sweet talk, but it’s your hand on our back (face, etc.) that really makes us feel adored.
Try not to let a day go by without wrapping your arms around us. It can be a big hug, a kiss, or frankly, for the married couples, sex (initiated by you our treasured queens).
Here’s a bonus that I stumbled across: Body contact causes your brain and his to pump out the bonding hormone oxytocin, so you’re likely to find yourself feeling closer to him with every touch.
ALL ABOARD, THE LIFETRAIN! No tokens needed!
***Suspecting that chuckie has been eating oysters***
A little on the horny side today, eh chuckie? (hehe.. just teasing)..
It’s very honorable and candid of you chuckie to shed the macho man so that we life train riders can see the true soul of a man. Men need love and affection too. Most men would have said “It’s halftime, the beer is gone and I wanna get nekkid..”
I speak from a woman’s perspective. This whole thing with intimacy for the average woman usually involves something a little more involved than just physical touching.. most women need an intimacy that goes a little deeper than that. We tend to be a little vain in that regard. Women tend to bear the weight of a dog eat dog world on their shoulders which devalues everything that we are. The last thing that we want is to be devalued by the man we share a bed with…. Some of us tend to hold on to that mustard seed’s worth of feminine energy.
Most of us need a level of intimacy that surpasses the physical. We seek to be heard, understood, valued, appreciated, and respected. Usually that precedes the physical contact and is an indicator that there is some worthwhile reason to indulge in the physical stuff. The thing with the oxytocin is that women have to be careful with it.. we can’t be just slingin’ around too much of our oxytocin (*wink wink*).. since it is a bonding chemical. We have to know that it’s OK to bond before we start tampering with the inevitable.. giving more of ourselves than we’re getting back. Reciprocity is key.
This goes for the married and the single.. no reciprocity or true intimacy usually adds up to no happiness and a weary soul.
So we all have to give a little to get a little.. we all have to see and be sensitive to each others’ needs. Men need love and affection just as women do, but seldom express that verbally as you’ve done. A lot of men also tend to think only of their own needs and not of their partner’s.. some of them even stunt their own emotional growth and neglect their own needs in the process. And yes, women do it too…
OK.. sorry for writing so much again…