Hey passengers, today we are making a stop at the “Legal” station and chat with Attorney Ewing Carter III (www.ecarterlaw.com) . Today we have a pretty interesting question about loaning and recovering money. Let’s get right to it, but first
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Chuckie: EC III!
EC III: Mr. Chuckie, what do you have for me?
Chuckie: Well, glad you asked Here’s a very interesting question that should test your legal skills. The passenger wrote: I loaned a family friend $4,000.00 interest free in March because he was about to lose his car and apartment. He was supposed to pay me back in June after receiving some sort of settlement monies. To date, I’ve only been paid $170.00. our kids are friends, but I feel stressed every time I see him because I need my money back and it “seems” that he isn’t taking the situation seriously. How should I address this?
EC III: I think you already know the answer. Matthew Chapt. 5 and 18, as well as 1 Corinthians 6, talks about bringing lawsuits against your brother. However, If someone is ignoring your valid
request for repayment, and is financially able, and/or you wish to pursue the matter, Small Claims Court may be the proper forum to adjudicate this matter. Please note that generally, commercial law requires that agreements whose subject value exceeds $500.00, must be in writing. A good tip is: any agreement where there is an exchange of consideration or “quid pro quo” should be in writing. My hope is that even should you decide to file a Complaint for Money Owed, your friend will then appreciate the seriousness and begin to make payments as promised. The presiding Judge or Magistrate will usually be flexible and continue the case for time a period to enable scheduled payments to be made prior to entering judgment.
Chuckie: That’s a tough one…
EC III: True but, that’s why we have laws. Catch you next week Mr. Conductor
Chuckie: Sure thing Mr. Lawyer.
“For the Lord!”
Are you currently in a place of waiting? Perhaps you are waiting for a job, for healing, for restoration in a relationship, or for wisdom to know where you should go next.That place of waiting is a place we are all familiar with. It’s a place we find ourselves in often over the course of our lives. Though it’s a familiar place and one we know well, we can often grow wearing in our waiting. Sometimes our hearts grow heavy with worry and doubt. Sometimes we might wonder if God has forgotten about us or given up on us.
Thank you to Retired Lt. Colonel Hollie Montgomery Jr. for reminding me of this….
The Psalmist knew that place of waiting as well. His cry of “How long, O LORD? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? (13:1) is one that resonates with our own heart. The Psalmist cried out to God in prayer and so should we. If you are in a place of waiting, this prayer is for you.
Father in Heaven,
I come before you with my heart filled with so many different thoughts and feelings. I am tense and uncertain about what I should be doing and where I should go. I feel weak and helpless. Powerless. I am worried about what happens next and whether I have the strength to handle it. Deep down I wonder, how long will I be here? Will I be stuck in this place of waiting forever? And why am I here to begin with? What’s happening, Lord? But most of all, I wonder, where are you? Why haven’t you responded to my cries for help?
But even as I pray that, I know you are right where you’ve always said you would be. You’ve never left me and you will never forsake me. You are not deaf to my cries. In fact, you know the thoughts in my heart before I even think them. You know exactly what is happening, why I am here, and what is going to happen next. All things are in your sovereign care and control. Nothing happens outside your knowledge and will. Not even a hair falls from my head without your willing it to happen. Nothing surprises you or takes you off guard. Including this issue right here, right now. You know why I am here waiting and you have promised to use it for your glory and my good.
I have way to many peope to thank right now to name you, so I simply say….”Thank God For you!”. For keeping me strong….in this thing called…..”Life”
Forgive me for all my doubts, worries, and fears. Forgive me for my impatience as I wait in this place. Forgive me for questioning the story you’ve written for me. Forgive me for not seeking your face and allowing the struggles before me to seem greater and stronger than your grace and mercy for me. Cleanse my heart of all that keeps me from you. Help me to see the ways I have tried to be my own god and my own savior. Help me to see the false idols I have erected to worship and serve instead of you. Help me to see the things I am clinging to right now that I think I must have to make me happy and help me to repent and turn from them.
I believe, help me in my unbelief! Help me to remember that it is good to wait for you. As the prophet wrote in Lamentations, “It is good that one should wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord” (3:26). As I wait, help me to remember and dwell on the salvation you’ve provided for me through Christ. Help me to remember that the same grace that saved me at the cross is the same grace that sustains me today. And that same grace is at work in me even now, shaping me into the image of your Son. And no matter what happens, no matter my current circumstances, I am safe in the shelter of your wings. There is nothing that can separate me from your love. Nothing and no one can snatch me from your hands.
Grant me the joy that comes from knowing you and being known by you. Fill my heart with gospel joy. Strengthen me by your word. May the words of the Psalmist be true of me, “I wait for the LORD, my soul waits, and in his word I hope” (Psalm 130:5).
Help me to remain faithful in this place of waiting. Help me to serve you and live for you even in this crossroad of my life. Help me to wait as long as it takes.
I pray all these things because of Jesus and in his name,
Keep the faith fellow passengers…..And wait on the lord!
Love one another…And wait on the Lord! Your Conductor… Chuckie
Go forth this week and do GREAT things!
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