June 29, 2007

Want A Quick & Inexpensive Vacation?

Category: Thoughts — chuckie @ 1:30 am

Pick up the Album called “Journey” by Fourplay.  Listen to the song “Field of Gold”.  Don’t 4get to come back…

Also, come back 2night for Date Night w/Lil Chuckie.  Kickin off round 6:PM.

Chuckie’s “Song Of The Day”

Category: Thoughts — chuckie @ 1:07 am

But who is you?…CLICK

June 28, 2007

Station Stop…Time 2 Unpack!

Category: Thoughts — chuckie @ 6:42 am

As the train pulls into the station today, I have a surprise for you. As you detrain for the day’s activities, it is I, in full conductor uniform, with that big Chuckie Grin. Today we are going to unpack all “our” baggage off the train, or at least begin the process.

Yesterday we began looking at the subject of “Suddenly Single”. Today we move on a little further down the track looking at finding and beginning a new relationship and how difficult that can be.

It is particularly difficult when we are carrying baggage from past relationships. We are told that it is not good to carry past relationships into the current ones. You know that. But how do we free ourselves from that which is a part of us? You don’t! We can’t, it is a part of our history, our being. Yet we can unpack the baggage. We can take a look at the pain, guilt, fear. We can look it dead in the face and see what it is, for what it is – the past. It’s over. Without shame, without blame, we have to start looking at what happened and know it does not have to happen again. It is only when we refuse to look, refuse to release, that we will have experiences added to our baggage collection. There is another point we often forget when moving into a new relationship: No matter how painful the past has been, we made it through.

As I pull out the stoop to help you back onto the Train, The LifeTrain, remember, today, We are unpacking.

All Aboard! The LifeTrain!

Thought 4 2Day…

Category: Thoughts — chuckie @ 4:36 am

You cannot belong to anyone else, until you belong to yourself. -Pearl Bailey

Coffee Break W/Chuckie “Pretty Bad!”

Category: Thoughts — chuckie @ 3:00 am

Grab a cup, take a break…try not to laugh to loud: CLICK

June 27, 2007

Mid-Week Service — Come On By The Church!

Category: Thoughts — chuckie @ 10:39 pm

Come one come all.  The Deacon has the doors open at the Church.  The Church is located on Main street ( under the heading “MAIN”).  See ya there!

They’re Gone…Move On…

Category: Thoughts — chuckie @ 5:50 am

Hey LifeTrain passengers, are you “suddenly single”? It’s always upsetting when someone dumps us without an obvious cause. Sometimes letting go can be a very difficult thing, however, the quicker you realize that they are in-fact gone the better.

Now, there’s a couple of things you can do. Crawl up in bed and hide from the world or take the proverbial bull by the horns and get on with life. Here’s the challenge:

1. Forgive and remember: That’s my thought to start you off. You’ve got to forgive your ex and yourself so you can release the anger that’s isolating you. But remember your own role in your marriage. Remember how unaware you were about what was truly happening.

2. Get out there! You say you’re lonely, but you refuse to make time for “a social life and all that nonsense.” This is constricted thinking. How could you move towards less loneliness if you’re not willing to inconvenience yourself to alter your routine? Change your life script at once! Make the time to get out there.

3. Understand what creates a lasting marriage: It requires two parties contributing to a common goal. Some of us, especially men, have gone through “down on your luck”, periods. Examine or think about how they valued you at that time. Think about it, really think about this. Personally, I’m going to make sure that my intended would make me feel like she would help me with my “depends” if necessary and I would be willing to do the exact same thing. So if you see my one remaining wondering eye looking at you crazy like, that may be what I am sizing up! Laugh yall… Seriously though, one of our life lessons should be to remember to show your appreciation to those people in your corner—even and especially during good times.

Again, It’s always upsetting when someone dumps us without an obvious cause. It hurts, bad…I know. You can choose to keep looking for a reason or you can move on. The first option will keep you “marooned,” but the second will expand you into territory that will end your aloneness.

So, fellow LifeTrain Passengers, pick a destination, a Bookstore, a seminar of your interest, or a museum…and do your thang! Hello world, this is me, see my value and worth as I will do the same for you…or move on!   CLICK

Coffee Break W/Chuckie ….My Group Begins!

Category: Thoughts — chuckie @ 3:12 am

Even if you don’t do the whole 9 (minutes of this coffee break) check out the beginnings of my one of my favorite groups! CLICK

Ps.  It worth sticking it out to see all the members (as they were) as they transition through the entire performance.

June 25, 2007

Merry Monday!

Category: Thoughts — chuckie @ 2:36 am

Boss Trippin, Husband trippin, Bills due, Baby need a new pair of shoes?  Count it all joy! Cause you know how we do on the Train!  On the LifeTrain our Monday Morning saying is what!?!  “MERRY MONDAY!” cause we Got the victory!  CLICK

Chuckie’s “Song Of The Day”…Happy Birthday 2 Me!

Category: Thoughts — chuckie @ 12:01 am

Happy Birthday to me! Here’s my Birthday song. Someday, when my life has past me by, just know that Jesus was always there 4 me! CLICK